With the wife, don't get any ideas. Probably been a month, maybe 2 months since we last did the deed. I'm sure it's been a week and a half since I masterbated so I was pretty horny. All it took was a little touching to get me in the mood. About 5 minutes in, my wife said something out of the blue that really shocked me. She whispered "Would you ever want to crossdress while we make love?", perhaps hinting that if I crossdressed more we'd make love more? Now I have done this once before, and I'm 99% sure afterwards she said it felt weird (hence why I haven't tried ever since). I even told her this, and she said "No of course not, why would you think that?" I don't know if she was willing to sacrifice her own feelings, or if she forgot, or if it was just something she said in the heat of passion? But you know what, I'm going to challenge her. Sometime in the future I"m going to get dressed to the nines (which should already make me horny), and see how truthful her statement really is.