Sometimes I wonder if this will be me someday
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2436311/Husband-wife-reveal-BOTH-gay-20-YEARS-marriage.html
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2436311/Husband-wife-reveal-BOTH-gay-20-YEARS-marriage.html
Tuesday, October 1, 2013
Wednesday, September 18, 2013
Back from vacation
Had an interesting trip to the northwest. It was one of those vacations where you have some idea of the places you want to go, but the rest you just sorta wing it. Before we even got off the plane, my wife asked "Oh crap, I was supposed to ask you, did you want to pack some CD clothes?". I had to do a double take for a second, did she seriously just ask what I think she asked? She then went to explain that the town we were going to be in is very liberal, and nobody cares what you do. She also went on to say that it would have probably been a good opportunity because she knows I don't go out dressed now because of my fear of someone recognizing me (but it's also the fear of someone judging me, so double bonus opportunity). Had I known she even had thoughts of such a thing, I would probably have agreed to it.
Anyway, one of my wife's work centers was close by, and one of her co-workers just happens to be gay. The subject of cross dressing came up simply because of the liberal town we happen to be in. It almost sounded as if they had this conversation at some point because just before we went into a restaurant he sort of non-nonchalantly prodded me a little bit. If I remember right, he asked me if I did it because I appreciated the female visual so much that I wanted it wrapped around me, I agreed. Then he asked me if I had any interest in guys at all, which I replied no (which is mostly true, though a man dressed as a woman excites me, so I'm not sure how to categorize that). So we get our table, and we start looking at a menu. I then decide to pull up my "urnotalone" profile page and grab a couple photos of myself dressed up. I show them to him, he studies it for about half a minute, smiling, then starts nodding and says "wow, you really are pretty, you do that all yourself?", I say yes. Then my wife chimes in "Isn't he? I hate to admit it, but he does a pretty good job".
So not only did I come out to someone I just met, but I'm finding out things about my wife I didn't even realize. Not only does she want to see me live out my dream of going out in public as a girl (without it being Halloween), but she honestly thinks I'm pretty dressed up.
Then this odd feeling of guilt starts setting in. I feel the glow of the compliment, and realize how crappy my wife must feel because I never compliment her. Now I have to preface before I make the following comment. I am attracted to my wife, I love her, I don't cheat on her (we are completely open and honest in our relationship). But the fact is because I'm a crossdresser, I'm attracted to pretty clothes, sparkly jewelry, makeup, hair styling, high heels, dresses. My wife is almost none of those things, yet I can't say anything because I know she's not comfortable in any of that, and it would only offend her if I asked her to wear any of that. To top that off, she really likes men with facial hair, something I refuse to do being who I am. If I expected her to do any of that, I would have to reciprocate otherwise I would be expecting a double standard.
The trip ended with a layover in phoenix, where I saw a gorgeous woman waiting in the terminal. Now when I say gorgeous, I mean she was just brimming with femininity. At first glance, I honestly thought "stripper", but I kept looking. She looked to be latina, so she had the dark tan skin. She had long black straight hair with blonde streaks that looked like she just came out of the salon. She had beautiful shoes, long red nails, big thick red lips, and she had the most perfectly applied false eyelashes. These drew me in the most, because this is what made her the most feminine of all the attributes. Then it got me thinking, I really need to practice putting on lashes.
Anyway, one of my wife's work centers was close by, and one of her co-workers just happens to be gay. The subject of cross dressing came up simply because of the liberal town we happen to be in. It almost sounded as if they had this conversation at some point because just before we went into a restaurant he sort of non-nonchalantly prodded me a little bit. If I remember right, he asked me if I did it because I appreciated the female visual so much that I wanted it wrapped around me, I agreed. Then he asked me if I had any interest in guys at all, which I replied no (which is mostly true, though a man dressed as a woman excites me, so I'm not sure how to categorize that). So we get our table, and we start looking at a menu. I then decide to pull up my "urnotalone" profile page and grab a couple photos of myself dressed up. I show them to him, he studies it for about half a minute, smiling, then starts nodding and says "wow, you really are pretty, you do that all yourself?", I say yes. Then my wife chimes in "Isn't he? I hate to admit it, but he does a pretty good job".
So not only did I come out to someone I just met, but I'm finding out things about my wife I didn't even realize. Not only does she want to see me live out my dream of going out in public as a girl (without it being Halloween), but she honestly thinks I'm pretty dressed up.
Then this odd feeling of guilt starts setting in. I feel the glow of the compliment, and realize how crappy my wife must feel because I never compliment her. Now I have to preface before I make the following comment. I am attracted to my wife, I love her, I don't cheat on her (we are completely open and honest in our relationship). But the fact is because I'm a crossdresser, I'm attracted to pretty clothes, sparkly jewelry, makeup, hair styling, high heels, dresses. My wife is almost none of those things, yet I can't say anything because I know she's not comfortable in any of that, and it would only offend her if I asked her to wear any of that. To top that off, she really likes men with facial hair, something I refuse to do being who I am. If I expected her to do any of that, I would have to reciprocate otherwise I would be expecting a double standard.
The trip ended with a layover in phoenix, where I saw a gorgeous woman waiting in the terminal. Now when I say gorgeous, I mean she was just brimming with femininity. At first glance, I honestly thought "stripper", but I kept looking. She looked to be latina, so she had the dark tan skin. She had long black straight hair with blonde streaks that looked like she just came out of the salon. She had beautiful shoes, long red nails, big thick red lips, and she had the most perfectly applied false eyelashes. These drew me in the most, because this is what made her the most feminine of all the attributes. Then it got me thinking, I really need to practice putting on lashes.
Saturday, August 10, 2013
bad dream last night
I've been playing with glitter recently (doing a project). In my dream, I was with a bunch of kids, and they were all adding glitter to my feet and shoes. I was literally coated with glitter up to my ankles. Then I needed to go to the store, so I drove over there, and when I got out of the car I went "Oh crap, my feet are still covered in glitter".
Then I went "Ah, who cares, I'm just gonna run in. Probably nobody will even notice it". After walking inside the store for about 20 feet, suddenly somebody pushed me from behind. Then they started punching me, followed by jumping on my back taking me down to the floor. I started elbowing this person, but they just wouldn't let go or stop hitting me, so I started to get up again. Then they started stabbing my in the neck with a blunt object. Finally I had enough, so I picked up a heavy object and started to beat them (then I woke up because my dogs were licking me). I'm not sure if it was "just that time of the morning", or if I was moving around in my sleep and they were worried about me.
Even though no words were spoken in the dream, I could sense that this person attacked me because they were homophobic and wanted to teach me a lesson. Almost as if the idea had been implanted into my head without actually hearing words. I always try to learn what lesson was being taught in my dream, but I'm not sure what it is. I HAVE been having thoughts of dressing up and going for a drive lately (something I still haven't done, I'm always inside the house). Wonder if my brain is going through what would happen if I were attacked with dressed up, what choices would I make to defend myself?
Then I went "Ah, who cares, I'm just gonna run in. Probably nobody will even notice it". After walking inside the store for about 20 feet, suddenly somebody pushed me from behind. Then they started punching me, followed by jumping on my back taking me down to the floor. I started elbowing this person, but they just wouldn't let go or stop hitting me, so I started to get up again. Then they started stabbing my in the neck with a blunt object. Finally I had enough, so I picked up a heavy object and started to beat them (then I woke up because my dogs were licking me). I'm not sure if it was "just that time of the morning", or if I was moving around in my sleep and they were worried about me.
Even though no words were spoken in the dream, I could sense that this person attacked me because they were homophobic and wanted to teach me a lesson. Almost as if the idea had been implanted into my head without actually hearing words. I always try to learn what lesson was being taught in my dream, but I'm not sure what it is. I HAVE been having thoughts of dressing up and going for a drive lately (something I still haven't done, I'm always inside the house). Wonder if my brain is going through what would happen if I were attacked with dressed up, what choices would I make to defend myself?
Monday, July 29, 2013
My life, part 2
So the next 5 years are a bit fuzzy. I remember lots of masterbation, which was usually revolved around me dressing up, or putting high school photos of my head on women in catalogs (before photoshop), or somewhat successful sketches drawing myself female. Sometimes just downloading a photo of a shemale was enough to get me off. I wasn't really thinking about why something like that turned me on, I was just thinking "Hey, that's a woman with a cock, that's sort of like a really good crossdresser".
Eventually I started dating, and about a month or two after we met in person I shyly asked if she knew what a crossdresser was. She said yes, and I said sometimes I like to do that. It was as if I just told her I like chocolate because it didn't phase her in the least.
We eventually moved in together, and later got married (still married to her). I crossdressed on and off. Sometimes in front of her, sometimes when she wasn't around. Ironically I got more flak when I did it alone, because she didn't want to feel like I had to hide it from her. For some reason, the desire became stronger when she wasn't around. I don't know if it was because it felt awkward to get aroused by it, or if it just felt weird to be dressed as a girl in front of her. Over the years, there's been moments where she's helped me brush my wig, do my makeup, paint my nails, on one occasion to get my aroused she described in detail about how she was going to crossdress me.
Fast forward about 10 years, I decide to dress up one night with the intention of making love to her while dressed. She felt awkward as I approached her, even asking "what are you doing?". I said I wanted to make love to her. She went along with it, but I could tell she felt weird about it (even though she had a few lesbian experiments). Maybe a real girl is different than a guy dressed as a girl to her. We both orgasmed, but I could tell she didn't enjoy it as much as I did.
I should also add at this point that we tried swinging for a very short period. We had oral sex with only one other couple, but we attended this thing called a "BBW dance". Basically someone rents a hotel hall, rents a DJ, a bartender, orders some pizza, and a bunch of plus sized women attend. Most of the guys are either overweight themselves, or have a fat fetish. Anyway, me and my wife both attended, but me not being an outgoing person didn't have much luck (even though I could have probably said hi to any of these ladies and they'd say yes). She would play with other guys, and quite frankly I was ok with this. I felt like I wasn't sexually satisfying her, so why not some other guy? It was almost as if I was playing the part of the cuckhold husband without realizing it. That sort of faded off when my wife contracted herpes from someone, and not the mouth kind. At one point, I tried meeting with another crossdresser, and I not only gave a HJ, I also gave him a BJ. He wasn't feeling well that night, so we had to cut it short before either of us came, but I got a taste for men.
Now fast forward to about 6 months ago. I decide to try my luck again, dress up and get aroused. I wrap my arms around the back of her from behind the couch, and kiss her. I tell her that I'm horny, and she sort of just shrugs it off. I could tell that this was a revisit from a few years ago. I felt so shot down. Here we're supposed to be a couple to fulfill each other's sexual needs, and she isn't able to fulfill mine. The next 6 months are dry in bed. I blame the dogs interrupting us, I blame being tired, I blame just not being in the mood, anything that will excuse my lack of trying. Eventually when it hits a month of no sex, I'll usually try my best on a weekend morning to satisfy her (any woman pent up with sexual frustration is eventually going to get moody). Well this last session was possibly the most depressing one of my life. After very easily making her cum (I usually have to slow down so she doesn't go too fast), she decides to return the favor. She gets me aroused fairly quickly, mostly due to the fact that in my head my fantasy is nursing my cock along. My fantasy is that once I cum, I'm going to be transformed into a woman, and I'm going to have to get dressed up all pretty and stay that way for the rest of the day. We might even go out shopping together as girlfriends, perhaps she'll invite her old fuck buddy over and we'll both suck his cock together. This fantasy is a win-win because not only is the fantasy itself arousing, but the fantasy is about cumming so that I can become what is arousing me in the first place (becoming a woman), so that's like motivation for my cock.
Now because I'm feeling aroused and hard, I tell her to get on top. Most of the time, our sex life is oral simply because I have issues with keeping it up. I know she really likes "SEX", not just oral, so I figure I better take this opportunity. As soon as she climbs on top of me, all I can think about is staying hard, finding the hole and getting my cock in that hole so I can stay aroused. Of course I psych myself out, and I quickly go limp. I think that in the back of my head, I'm also thinking "Sex as a man, this doesn't turn me on"
So she scoots down, and tries to get me aroused again. Time to kick in the fantasy because I know if I simply rely on the feeling of my cock getting sucked, I won't get hard, and then after 5 minutes it'll get overly sensitive, and then I REALLY won't get hard. Oh look, I'm getting hard. My cock wants to be a pussy, and the rest of me wants to put on a pretty dress and heels and makeup, and oh lord I'm about to cum, there's she blows.
That was yesterday, and I couldn't be more depressed. At what point do I reveal how I really feel? I mean I hardly understand any of this, and somehow I'm supposed to explain this to her? I almost feel like I need couples therapy because if it's just me against her, I know I'll lose, or made to feel like I've been hiding something when the truth is I don't even know who the hell I am or what I'm supposed to feel. I mean seriously, how do you explain to a normal person what it's like to have the gender of one brain, and the sexuality of another gender. Most people know one gender, either you want to be a woman and have sex as a woman, or you want to be a man having sex as a man. Who in their right mind thinks like a dude 99% of the time, but thinks like a woman in bed? Crossdreamers like me, and probably thousands of other mis-understood people like me, that's who.
Eventually I started dating, and about a month or two after we met in person I shyly asked if she knew what a crossdresser was. She said yes, and I said sometimes I like to do that. It was as if I just told her I like chocolate because it didn't phase her in the least.
We eventually moved in together, and later got married (still married to her). I crossdressed on and off. Sometimes in front of her, sometimes when she wasn't around. Ironically I got more flak when I did it alone, because she didn't want to feel like I had to hide it from her. For some reason, the desire became stronger when she wasn't around. I don't know if it was because it felt awkward to get aroused by it, or if it just felt weird to be dressed as a girl in front of her. Over the years, there's been moments where she's helped me brush my wig, do my makeup, paint my nails, on one occasion to get my aroused she described in detail about how she was going to crossdress me.
Fast forward about 10 years, I decide to dress up one night with the intention of making love to her while dressed. She felt awkward as I approached her, even asking "what are you doing?". I said I wanted to make love to her. She went along with it, but I could tell she felt weird about it (even though she had a few lesbian experiments). Maybe a real girl is different than a guy dressed as a girl to her. We both orgasmed, but I could tell she didn't enjoy it as much as I did.
I should also add at this point that we tried swinging for a very short period. We had oral sex with only one other couple, but we attended this thing called a "BBW dance". Basically someone rents a hotel hall, rents a DJ, a bartender, orders some pizza, and a bunch of plus sized women attend. Most of the guys are either overweight themselves, or have a fat fetish. Anyway, me and my wife both attended, but me not being an outgoing person didn't have much luck (even though I could have probably said hi to any of these ladies and they'd say yes). She would play with other guys, and quite frankly I was ok with this. I felt like I wasn't sexually satisfying her, so why not some other guy? It was almost as if I was playing the part of the cuckhold husband without realizing it. That sort of faded off when my wife contracted herpes from someone, and not the mouth kind. At one point, I tried meeting with another crossdresser, and I not only gave a HJ, I also gave him a BJ. He wasn't feeling well that night, so we had to cut it short before either of us came, but I got a taste for men.
Now fast forward to about 6 months ago. I decide to try my luck again, dress up and get aroused. I wrap my arms around the back of her from behind the couch, and kiss her. I tell her that I'm horny, and she sort of just shrugs it off. I could tell that this was a revisit from a few years ago. I felt so shot down. Here we're supposed to be a couple to fulfill each other's sexual needs, and she isn't able to fulfill mine. The next 6 months are dry in bed. I blame the dogs interrupting us, I blame being tired, I blame just not being in the mood, anything that will excuse my lack of trying. Eventually when it hits a month of no sex, I'll usually try my best on a weekend morning to satisfy her (any woman pent up with sexual frustration is eventually going to get moody). Well this last session was possibly the most depressing one of my life. After very easily making her cum (I usually have to slow down so she doesn't go too fast), she decides to return the favor. She gets me aroused fairly quickly, mostly due to the fact that in my head my fantasy is nursing my cock along. My fantasy is that once I cum, I'm going to be transformed into a woman, and I'm going to have to get dressed up all pretty and stay that way for the rest of the day. We might even go out shopping together as girlfriends, perhaps she'll invite her old fuck buddy over and we'll both suck his cock together. This fantasy is a win-win because not only is the fantasy itself arousing, but the fantasy is about cumming so that I can become what is arousing me in the first place (becoming a woman), so that's like motivation for my cock.
Now because I'm feeling aroused and hard, I tell her to get on top. Most of the time, our sex life is oral simply because I have issues with keeping it up. I know she really likes "SEX", not just oral, so I figure I better take this opportunity. As soon as she climbs on top of me, all I can think about is staying hard, finding the hole and getting my cock in that hole so I can stay aroused. Of course I psych myself out, and I quickly go limp. I think that in the back of my head, I'm also thinking "Sex as a man, this doesn't turn me on"
So she scoots down, and tries to get me aroused again. Time to kick in the fantasy because I know if I simply rely on the feeling of my cock getting sucked, I won't get hard, and then after 5 minutes it'll get overly sensitive, and then I REALLY won't get hard. Oh look, I'm getting hard. My cock wants to be a pussy, and the rest of me wants to put on a pretty dress and heels and makeup, and oh lord I'm about to cum, there's she blows.
That was yesterday, and I couldn't be more depressed. At what point do I reveal how I really feel? I mean I hardly understand any of this, and somehow I'm supposed to explain this to her? I almost feel like I need couples therapy because if it's just me against her, I know I'll lose, or made to feel like I've been hiding something when the truth is I don't even know who the hell I am or what I'm supposed to feel. I mean seriously, how do you explain to a normal person what it's like to have the gender of one brain, and the sexuality of another gender. Most people know one gender, either you want to be a woman and have sex as a woman, or you want to be a man having sex as a man. Who in their right mind thinks like a dude 99% of the time, but thinks like a woman in bed? Crossdreamers like me, and probably thousands of other mis-understood people like me, that's who.
Seperate blog
So some of you that follow my tgfictionmania.blogspot.com blog may have decided to check this one out. I feel like when I ramble on that site (which was meant as entertainment and fantasy, not to bring viewers down), I end up losing my audience. So if you're the type of person that finds people's lives interesting, go ahead and hit the follow button the right. I decided to start this so I could start laying my feelings out to the world anonymously after reading this blog:
http://gynandromorphophilia.blogspot.in/2013/07/journal-of-crossdreamer.html
I feel like I need to back up a bit before I get into my current life. I've been a crossdresser nearly as long as I can remember. I can remember climbing into my parent's closet as a very young kid (probably 5-6), and looking at all my mom's heels. They were so different than any of the shoes I had, my brother had, my father had. I liked them, they were so colorful and interestingly shaped. To me, boys were boring (and for the most part, I still share that opinion). I remember my mom also had this interesting black and silver glittery blouse that I believe she wore for halloween (she was also some sort of PTA something or other for my school). I remember thinking how cool looking that shirt was. It reminded me of some of the tshirts I had (in the early 80s, often tshirts were outlined with glittery borders). But I thought "Hey, that's a WHOLE shirt made of that stuff!"
Anyway, those thoughts were in the back of my head for a while, but they never really meant much to me. Then when I started approaching teen years (say 12), I started noticing girls. Not in that way, more like "hey, I like prettiness". My parents also divorced when I was 12 btw. It wasn't long after that I had a memory of walking down the local mall, and noticing that there was an entire section of women's shops. Back then you didn't have unisex, you didn't have men's stores like banana republic or buckle, or whatever is trendy these days. You had dozens of women's boutiques (because women spent time and money at malls), and then for the most part men shopped at places like Sears and JcPenny. That's right, we shopped at the same stores that sold appliances and tools, because that's what men did. I chalked it up to my Dad just being frugal knowing the clothes at stores like this wouldn't cost as much, but I honestly think he would have been quite annoyed if I took interest in trendy clothing.
During school while most boys were checking out the girls because they wanted sex, I was admiring their clothes, their jewelry, their hair, their makeup. At that point I don't think I was still even thinking about crossdressing, I was just admiring how girls could make themselves more attractive by applying all of these things to themselves. Seriously, even the heavyset or ugly girls, with the right look could pull off beauty. I think it was around 15-16 was when the feelings really started getting strong. I remember stealing eyeliner from one of my brother's girlfriends. I poorly hid it under the sink in the bathroom, and eventually my dad found it and asked why it was there. I just shrugged it off like I had no idea. Then one of my brother's girlfriends (really cute and petite italian girl) decided to move in. To make matters worse, somehow my brother convinced her to become a local stripper (not kidding) so she had lots of beautiful clothes, and a giant flowery duffle bag full of lingerie (talk about a kid in a candy store). I remember being so scared to try anything on. I stuck to bras that weren't showy (ones that she probably wore on a regular basis). I remember looking at the clasps, so foreign to me (none of my clothing had anything like that). Since I was still young, even though I was a heavy kid, it still fit me (sorta). I started to get cocky and try on some of the tops and dresses, knowing my limit when I heard seams starting to rip a bit. I figured nobody would be any wiser, but I remember hearing an argument where she blamed my brother for not knowing how to do laundry properly. Little did she know I was trying her stuff on.
Eventually my brother moved out, but I knew I wanted to dress up like a girl, with my own stuff. But I didn't know how, nor did I know how I was going to pull it off. My dad pretty much left me alone, but I still worried about him poking around. I didn't have the courage to just go to the store and shop for women's clothing (and honestly to this day, I still hardly do). I could mail-order, but I'm certain my dad would question why there's a package addressed to me from lane bryant, or fredericks of hollywood. So I did what any kid would do, plop down my $3/month and get a PO box. That's right, I could get catalogs sent there, clothing, whatever the hell I wanted. I remember how excited I got when they handed me the keys. It was almost like getting keys to your first apartment. Here I had a secret drop off spot where I could get anything I wanted, and I did. I remember the first thing I bought was a black dress with a ribbed folding neckline and a belt (and I still have that dress to this day, so glad I kept it). I remember the first time I slipped it over my head, a feeling of completeness (and horniess) washed over me. I sat on the toilet and just soaked it in for 5-10 minutes. I got my first taste, and I wanted more. I wanted to know what a wig felt like, what nylons felt like, heels, jewelry, I wanted it all. I had a meager job working as a janitor, so I couldn't go crazy, but I knew eventually I would own many things.
Let's also not forget I had to figure out a place to keep all of this. My grand idea: find a moving box, and stuff all of it in there, and bury it in my messy closet. You know what, my father never did realize what was in that box for the next 5 years. So long as I kept my room clean, he didn't give a crap about how messy the closet was. Since my dad had an odd schedule (he left for work around 3am), Most mornings I would wake up early just to crossdress. My community college class might not have started till 9-10am, but I was up at 5am trying on my clothes, styling my wig, trying on clip-on earrings.
To be continued...............
http://gynandromorphophilia.blogspot.in/2013/07/journal-of-crossdreamer.html
I feel like I need to back up a bit before I get into my current life. I've been a crossdresser nearly as long as I can remember. I can remember climbing into my parent's closet as a very young kid (probably 5-6), and looking at all my mom's heels. They were so different than any of the shoes I had, my brother had, my father had. I liked them, they were so colorful and interestingly shaped. To me, boys were boring (and for the most part, I still share that opinion). I remember my mom also had this interesting black and silver glittery blouse that I believe she wore for halloween (she was also some sort of PTA something or other for my school). I remember thinking how cool looking that shirt was. It reminded me of some of the tshirts I had (in the early 80s, often tshirts were outlined with glittery borders). But I thought "Hey, that's a WHOLE shirt made of that stuff!"
Anyway, those thoughts were in the back of my head for a while, but they never really meant much to me. Then when I started approaching teen years (say 12), I started noticing girls. Not in that way, more like "hey, I like prettiness". My parents also divorced when I was 12 btw. It wasn't long after that I had a memory of walking down the local mall, and noticing that there was an entire section of women's shops. Back then you didn't have unisex, you didn't have men's stores like banana republic or buckle, or whatever is trendy these days. You had dozens of women's boutiques (because women spent time and money at malls), and then for the most part men shopped at places like Sears and JcPenny. That's right, we shopped at the same stores that sold appliances and tools, because that's what men did. I chalked it up to my Dad just being frugal knowing the clothes at stores like this wouldn't cost as much, but I honestly think he would have been quite annoyed if I took interest in trendy clothing.
During school while most boys were checking out the girls because they wanted sex, I was admiring their clothes, their jewelry, their hair, their makeup. At that point I don't think I was still even thinking about crossdressing, I was just admiring how girls could make themselves more attractive by applying all of these things to themselves. Seriously, even the heavyset or ugly girls, with the right look could pull off beauty. I think it was around 15-16 was when the feelings really started getting strong. I remember stealing eyeliner from one of my brother's girlfriends. I poorly hid it under the sink in the bathroom, and eventually my dad found it and asked why it was there. I just shrugged it off like I had no idea. Then one of my brother's girlfriends (really cute and petite italian girl) decided to move in. To make matters worse, somehow my brother convinced her to become a local stripper (not kidding) so she had lots of beautiful clothes, and a giant flowery duffle bag full of lingerie (talk about a kid in a candy store). I remember being so scared to try anything on. I stuck to bras that weren't showy (ones that she probably wore on a regular basis). I remember looking at the clasps, so foreign to me (none of my clothing had anything like that). Since I was still young, even though I was a heavy kid, it still fit me (sorta). I started to get cocky and try on some of the tops and dresses, knowing my limit when I heard seams starting to rip a bit. I figured nobody would be any wiser, but I remember hearing an argument where she blamed my brother for not knowing how to do laundry properly. Little did she know I was trying her stuff on.
Eventually my brother moved out, but I knew I wanted to dress up like a girl, with my own stuff. But I didn't know how, nor did I know how I was going to pull it off. My dad pretty much left me alone, but I still worried about him poking around. I didn't have the courage to just go to the store and shop for women's clothing (and honestly to this day, I still hardly do). I could mail-order, but I'm certain my dad would question why there's a package addressed to me from lane bryant, or fredericks of hollywood. So I did what any kid would do, plop down my $3/month and get a PO box. That's right, I could get catalogs sent there, clothing, whatever the hell I wanted. I remember how excited I got when they handed me the keys. It was almost like getting keys to your first apartment. Here I had a secret drop off spot where I could get anything I wanted, and I did. I remember the first thing I bought was a black dress with a ribbed folding neckline and a belt (and I still have that dress to this day, so glad I kept it). I remember the first time I slipped it over my head, a feeling of completeness (and horniess) washed over me. I sat on the toilet and just soaked it in for 5-10 minutes. I got my first taste, and I wanted more. I wanted to know what a wig felt like, what nylons felt like, heels, jewelry, I wanted it all. I had a meager job working as a janitor, so I couldn't go crazy, but I knew eventually I would own many things.
Let's also not forget I had to figure out a place to keep all of this. My grand idea: find a moving box, and stuff all of it in there, and bury it in my messy closet. You know what, my father never did realize what was in that box for the next 5 years. So long as I kept my room clean, he didn't give a crap about how messy the closet was. Since my dad had an odd schedule (he left for work around 3am), Most mornings I would wake up early just to crossdress. My community college class might not have started till 9-10am, but I was up at 5am trying on my clothes, styling my wig, trying on clip-on earrings.
To be continued...............
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